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But dating — online or off — was hardly a smooth experience.
Part of the problem, she datings, is that the white American man has become the standard for what is attractive. So I dumped him.
He wrote down his height 6 feetlisted his interests podcasts, basketball, reading and included photos of himself outdoors. Maltempo says women occasionally made assumptions about him based on his race.
But when Montecillo reached the section that asked for his ethnicity, he hesitated. Tao Liu, a doctorate student in counseling psychology at Indiana University, has measured how Asian American men experience gendered racism. Maltempo compared this approach to meeting people at a mixer, where you can gauge your chemistry with only one person at a time.
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This alleviated the feeling of being overwhelmed and helped him get to know the person he was interested in.
Montecillo ended up including his ethnicity on his profile, but he removed it after an exhausting period where he received a response about once in every eight or nine messages. He first joined Match.
There are few Asian American male leads in Hollywood, and only recently have more Asian characters been cast as love interests.