Ive been dating a guy for 6 months
He even rang me when I was on holiday in Spain. We have great instincts for this sort of thing.
I know now that I was his supplier. Her reasons and the actions never added up fully, and I had seen the red flags coming as she was vague leading up to her visit with me, and avoided direct questions.
Most of the time things are not black and white. Understanding is a good spot. He had real questions; What kind of support will we have?